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Friday, March 6, 2015

How feminism deceives women. Woman who missed out on motherhood, lays bare her regrets.

The love I'll never know

'My life is a poorer place for not having children, and I am less of a woman for not being a mother. There is a vast realm of experience and growth I will never know'.

"I never expected to find myself in  agreement with Ann Widdecombe on anything, yet I realised when she said last week that her most profound regret is never having had children, that we have something very important in common."
Like her, I didn’t plan it this way; I made no choice to be childless. Like so many other women of my generation, born in the Sixties when the fashionable wisdom was that women should postpone marriage and motherhood to forge careers, I left it too late to have a family. I always assumed it would happen at some stage, but I never gave it the focus it needed.

"My regrets will always linger. My life is a poorer place for not having children, and I am less of a woman for not being a mother. There is a vast realm of experience and growth I will never know."
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It's interesting to read the post, because even if she does admit something is missing in her life, she still tries to defend what got her there...not her career, but listening to the wrong hateful people.

First of all...
I am not a woman, and do "NOT" have a feminine side, (therefore could never be a mangina) been a man and all, I do have enough experience in life to know abortions is destructive to a majority of women which feminists seem to go out of their way to ignore and refuse to explain or admit there is a emotional pain that comes after. So must for honesty.

Not having children is a negative in most adults, because even if we are satisfied with ones career, everything we have learned, all we have experienced dies with us, never to be passed on. As humans we have an insatiable desire to make sure what we are continues, even after death claims us...and the only way to do this is through children...
They pass on our experiences and it makes us, in some way, immortals, not physically but through the memories of who we where...
I do believe this is what she tried to explained, everything that she is, will never be passed on...

Since we started this site, I have noticed how many local feminists, (lanark county ontario) and those who associate with them, are single (and not out of choice since they have a profile on pof), have manginas, which offers no true adventure in a relationship with their forfeiture of their true character...

or simply have the wrong ones in their lives...in other word, they settle with what's left.
Even those who have kids, are so negative about men, that they also find themselves alone in the later years of their lives...
Case in point...I interviewed this woman who had gone through the local woman's shelter, she told me she had to pull her kids from a program they offered, because someone said; "when a mother stays with a man, it's child abuse", and also she mentioned someone else who was pregnant at the time, told her, one of the staff tried to convince her to have an abortion saying; "you don't want a man's baby in you".
These kind of open policies, puts negatives on feminism, not because of mra or mrm, or otherwise, but because of their own personal hatreds...most of them had a bad experience, and we fell sorry for them, but to pass on their "individual experiences" as if all men are like this is the cause of the dark cloud they live under.

One in particular, demonized so much the father of her own daughter, which worked in the short term, did not realise that one day, this person would seek out her father, and realities would show that he was not what she described....
To make long story short, she lost her own daughter because of her lies, lives life surrounded by negatives cause by her constant aggressive behaviour towards men, and finds herself alone and without the surroundings a family with children can offer...
Even to this day, the father, still holds no animosity towards this person,  this "man" even explains that "your mother is your mother, do not stay angry at her because of me".
Yet this "woman" has not contacted her own daughter and grandchildren for years, because of her hate, which she lives with every day, missing on the love she could have experienced. 
The father in no way considers this karma, but as he explained...." I have pity for her, and would not want anyone, even her to end up in the place she is now, if I could help her I would,  but her personal hate, which she's lived with for so long and is nurtured by those around her, is so entrenched, it prevents her from seeing the darkness which is her life".

We all know custody of the kids in this society goes to the mother and some of them will demonize the father, some mildly, but others with extreme prejudice, of those, when the truth comes out find themselves alone in the later years of their lives....because of what they said and did; that's the result of alienating dad. It's not something men want to happen, it's just the result of their personal actions.

So, not having kids, makes you into a very lonely person, (if one is human), alienating fathers results in finding one's self alone or with the wrong person....
That's what forgetting why we are here does, and especially, if one (feminists) live with a lifetime of aggressive behaviour towards men, the long term result is...loneliness....
Of course one can be career minded, but be aware of what "might" be waiting for you, if you forget, love is not a one way street, but a circle which can give more than one could ever expect at the workplace...
The combination of both (work and family) has always been men's ultimate goal, we know this...women now have to learn it...
Unfortunately, before that happens, more and more are going to find out the hard way, feminism deceives women's true nature...
Let's repeat, men (and true women) have always known, the combination of a career and family with kids, is the true path to happiness and even immortality.

Once at a gathering, a clan mother with years behind her, playing with her grandchildren, looked up and said to us:
"The true identity of a person is empty without the surrounding and the laughter of children, through them we fulfil our individual destiny, and that is to make the world a better place for the coming generation through our experiences. It is true that we can achieve much on our own, but in the back of our minds, if we have no children of our own, there is that nagging thought that, something is missing as we get older. That is when we realise, loneliness follows us and this becomes the saddest part on one's life."

Siding with feminist ideology can only end up one way....
Then again, they can always get...
A cat.

Note;
TNC does not judge all women to be anti-men, we only offer opinions based of what was passed on to us by the Elders. Family, especially children are a blessing from the Creator of all life, not a burden on careers, but the enhancement of personal lives.

2 comments:

Nikyon the clan mother said...

"Children are a blessing from the Creator of all life, not a burden on careers, but the enhancement of personal lives."
Well said.

The Native Canadians said...

Thank you