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Saturday, July 5, 2014

The strange and the dangerous...woman wants to wed bernardo?

Why some women are drawn to serial killers like Paul Bernardo

"is a paraphilia of the predatory type in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent upon being with a partner known to have committed an outrage, cheating, lying, known infidelities or crime, such as rape, murder, or armed robbery."
Many high-profile criminals, particularly those who have committed atrocious crimes, receive "fan mail" in prison which is sometimes amorous or sexual, presumably as a result of this phenomenon. In some cases, admirers of these criminals have gone on to marry the object of their affections in prison.

Hybristophilia is accepted as potentially lethal, among other such paraphilias including, but not being limited to, asphyxiophilia, autassassinophilia, biastophilia, and chremastistophilia.

The reason why some women do this is unknown, but some speculations have been offered. For instance, Katherine Ramsland, who is a professor of forensic psychology at DeSales University mentions, that some of the women who have married or dated serial killers have offered the following reasons:
"Some believe they can change a man as cruel and powerful as a serial killer."
"Others “see” the little boy that the killer once was and seek to nurture him."
"A few hoped to share in the media spotlight or get a book or movie deal."
"Then there’s the notion of the “perfect boyfriend.” She knows where he is at all times and she knows he’s thinking about her. While she can claim that someone loves her, she does not have to endure the day-to-day issues involved in most relationships. There’s no laundry to do, no cooking for him, and no accountability to him. She can keep the fantasy charged up for a long time."
Others offered reasons along the lines of:

"Some mental health experts have compared infatuation with killers to extreme forms of fanaticism. They view such women as insecure females who cannot find love in normal ways or as “love-avoidant” females who seek romantic relationships that cannot be consummated."

One of the most infamous examples of hybristophilia is the large number of women attracted to; 
Ted Bundy after his arrest. He often drew scores of women at the jammed courtrooms of his trials each day. Bundy allegedly received hundreds of love letters from women while he was incarcerated.
Jeffrey Dahmer, a serial killer, is said to have had amorous women sending him letters, money, and other gifts during his time in prison.
Serial killer Richard Ramirez married a female groupie in prison who had written him over 75 letters. During his trial, dozens of women flocked to the courtroom to catch a glimpse of him.
The phenomenon of Charles Manson groupies is also an example of hybristophilia.
Terrorists such as Anders Behring Breivik and Dzhokhar Tsarnaev have also been the objects of hybristophilia.

Love is one hell of an emotion, it can bring a lifetime of bliss and happiness, and that's what the problem is for some people, to look for that moment of joy everyone around them has. 
The lure of love can bring some to extremes as we see above, to fight the loneliness, the despair, wanting to have a stable companion in ones life....
It even shoves you in the wrong direction, sometimes knowing full well it's not meant to be, yet, one does it anyway, just to be or have someone you can call your own.
Whether it's the "bad boy" image some seem to think it is, is not what we should call it, bad boys per say do not go around killing people, there is a big difference between the bad boy and serial killer analogy.
People like bernardo, bundy, dahmer, are killers, murderers, the lowest of life forms possible, manipulators of the weak minded even, but bad boys??? No, never...

If women wants bad boys, I suggest they go to bikers, or any other "men" who live by their own rules, any of those men will offer these women the bad boy lifestyle they so desire, and then some.
Some men are also attracted to "bad girls", but the definition of bad girls does not include killers......

Either way, love as an emotion must be kept under a realistic outlook, to be attracted to the likes of bernardo is strange and does show emotional instability, and it's that type of instability that can be used by these killers to make someone do things they would not do otherwise....

So, we must ask, why the hell are so many women attracted to guys like that, are they more apt to be emotional unstable than men? In these particular cases one would have to say; "some are?" Not all, but definitely some...

We see a lot of emotional instability in some women, and yes even men, (aka; feminists and manginas), many make hated comments about men, and males make ridiculous comments about themselves as a form of subservient to feminism. Both show a massive inferiority complex, which in itself is extremely unhealthy.
Might not be as extreme as the post above, but it is there none the less...

Or, "men achieve power through rape", "boys are born abusers and rapists", this is not the mark of a stable mind, but someone who has resentment, even hatred, and this eats at you to a point of making the wrong and even stupid decisions....
It shows the human race will probably never achieve logic and rational for the foreseeable future, we can only hope there is enough of us "normals" around to offer a balance look on life and help those who do make idiotic statements and decisions, see the light...

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