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Sunday, July 20, 2014

A good read on why feminism is dead...and let's be careful not to take their place.

How True Feminism is Dead BY STEPHANIE DOLCE

In today’s society Feminism is something that is shoved down our throats that we are not being treated well.
BUT if you see the progress from the 50′s until now, everything that has happened in history has been totally taken out of context. The media has played a very strong part in trying to make it seem as though women are not being treated right, we need to look and act this way, women are victims, etc.
This movement was designed for equality between the sexes, but instead in 2014 Feminism equals hating and bashing men. Man-hating is now a part of that goal: “Men are bad and women must stick together so one day they might be President…. yada yada yada…”
And some women wonder WHY they are single and no man is biting the bait they are throwing out? Not to say it, never mind, I’ll say it, your negative attitudes toward men could be the number one reason why.

As a woman in 2014, I am not oppressed, neither is any other woman today! I can be whoever I want. I can date whomever I wish. And I never dress for men, I dress for myself. I want to be treated as a lady, but I also don’t want to be treated with kid gloves either. Here’s what these feminists of today seem to not know or don’t want to admit:
Men have as MANY issues as WOMEN. Did you know that men made up about 40% of domestic violence victims; not attackers. Men assaulted by their partners are often ignored by police, see their attacker go free, because women are seen as the victim, not the perpetrator. Men are largely silent on the issue because of the perception that men are physically stronger and should be able to subdue a female attacker easily. Those men who do report physical violence are more likely to be ridiculed–both by law enforcement and by the public–than women are. 1 out of every 33 American men has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in his lifetime.
Women are more brutal than men when it comes to emotional abuse. In most cases men are more affected by being emotionally abused than women are. For a man, being humiliated in front of others, even in the privacy of their own home, is more devastating than being physically abused. Many men live up to the code, of “never hitting a woman.” However, being emotionally abused by a woman, can have far more severe consequences. Men who are being abused emotionally always feel that they are “walk on eggshells” in order to “keep the peace,” instead of talking about their feelings. Then tend to shut-down totally and remove themselves from forming bonds with other women. If you are a guy and this sounds like your relationship, you are very likely in an unhealthy, controlling, abusive relationship and need to get out now.

Everyone, male or female deserve to be treated with respect. Everyone deserves love and everyone deserves a chance to be who they wish to be. That was the initial goal of feminism back in the day until the man-bashing women took over the movement. Just like I have learned that not all men are the same, the same can be said about women. All women aren't into this man-bashing thing. Some of us are good-hearted, sweet, kind and understanding. So to all those men who have given up on finding someone who wants to give you the world, don’t. She is out there, I swear.
Everyone deserves true, real love that is given from the heart. Don’t ever doubt that you deserve it.
Life can be hectic, confusing, painful, unpredictable and who knows what may be around the next corner. But eventually you learn that the human spirit prevails, hearts open and love surprises-–often when we least expect it. And we don’t need “feminism” in order to know that.
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The thing we have to remember is, she is right, the point she is making is feminism does not represent the majority of women...Most ladies are secure and do not suffer from an inferiority complex as does the feminist, the lowly mangina and those who suffer from PVS, (permanent victim syndrome, aka; the corrupt lawyers money bag)...
When we post stories about the abuse of the system by man hating feminists and the insecure manginas, if were not careful we might have a tendency to think that everyone around us is like that, because that is what we deal with day in and day out, me included. So it's important to have a realistic outlook on what real life is all about...and that's men and women trying to make things work and not hurting those around us doing it...

It's important to point out hate, or what I came to understand what most feminists and manginas really are...not someone who works for the betterment of others, but themselves...especially their deep resentment of those around them, whether they be women or men. This points to the fact that a deep inferiority complex thrives inside these people, should we feel sorry for them? Not one bit, because it is self inflicted.

Maybe we can pity them, they do live in an imaginary world created by their negativity, they make statements most of us find pretty disturbing and to some degree disgusting, they don't see it, they are laughed at, even ridiculed behind doors, yet they are so separated from reality that they actually think they are respected even loved for it...
Case in point...
I have referred to the local feminists making statements such as "all men achieve power through rape and sexual harassment, and during sporting events and Xmas with the co-operation the the l.c.b.o., (aka the beer store) men beat their wives". These kind of idiotic statements alienates them from the rest of us who do not subscribe to such hate, men, women and everyone in between who live in the real world. Such statements are not directed at the individuals who did nasty things to others, whether they be men or women, but to all, and when they do this, they alienate themselves from the very people they are trying to reach; the stay at home or working woman with sons, a husband, a father, a brother, and the man who has some power through hard work and tries to make the world around him a better place for all, none of these people have acted or imposed such disturbing policies as rape to achieve power on one another, yet they are accused of it, even if it is indirectly. 

Been anti feminist is fine, it's a just cause because they do thrive on division through hate and this eventually trickles down to families and kids, even the stability of nations themselves, but we must not be taken over, dealing with such hate and negativity day in and day out, the way they have. As the writer above says, it is true that not all women are like that, we must realise that the majority of us respect each others place in the circle of life. They (feminists and manginas) are the lowest of us all, any time someone demonizes a group for who they are, to achieve power and financial gain or for hate and resentment, or an inferiority complex, must be identifies as such, these people are the minority, they are not the rest of us....
Women like the idea of a gentleman, they are not crazy about the mangina who forgot his place, you don't have to be a white knight, just a man....
And men love the idea of a feminine woman, this doesn't mean she is weak on the contrary, it is someone who knows who she is, strong and secure, believe it of not, she does not have to be in the kitchen, washing dishes, barefoot and pregnant. She just has to be who nature intended for her to be, what nature intended all of us to be....
To be able to walk side by side, loving and respecting each other, and working together to sweep away those who would thrive on dividing that very reality.
Under those simply rules, we achieve more together than listening to a bunch of know nothing who have only a hate filled heart, a cat, or a mangina to go home to.

3 comments:

Nikyon the clan mother said...

Great post,great point,we must never take the road these people have adopted for themselves,hate can be contagious.

Allison said...

What Niky said.

Dad in Almonte said...

I have 2 admit i made that mistake sometimes because of my dealing with the crap they put me through,feminists r a minority,good caring women are the majority.Thank you