Warning; We are not a politically correct site. Don't like us? Don't read.

Friday, July 5, 2013

Feminism has become a dirty word..for women?

The more I research to see if feminism is what those (whatever they are) say it is, the more I find some women are now going out of their way to distance themselves from it. It's not a few who are doing it, we now see strong self assured women denouncing and going out of their way to reflect what me and so many other men who have been targeted by feminists have been saying...That they are people with an inferiority complex, scared, full of hatred against anything men do or try to do, who hide behind words like patriarchy, rape apologists (as if), all men abusers, all boys born potential rapists, so on, so on. 
I have come to realize, (once I got away from been confused why they would do this), they act like little girls who are afraid of everything around them, as if someone in their past told them they will always be targeted, victims and somehow they believed it. True some have had bad experiences with some "individual", but the mistake they made is putting all the apples in the same basket. They took their bad experiences and told themselves they were experts in domestic violence, and it turned into hatred because they surrounded themselves in that situation. The best scenario to point these belief is the women's shelter industry, they claim the right to call themselves experts, but experts in what, when you bring your hatred with you, it does not make one an expert, an expert is someone who knows and promotes the difference between those who commit acts of violence and those who don't. But in a shelter, you don't have that, you have a bunch of little girls who hate everything around them because they are surrounded by it day after day, combine this with their hatred and they are surely not experts, they actually make things worse.
When someone who went through a bad time due to violence, needs to be reassured that the world is not like that in general, they get, "all men bad", or "men hold power through rape", as they spit out here in Ontario. In turn, these self professed "experts" create a person who will be afraid the rest of their lives instead of regaining their strength. 

I don't have a degree in psychology, and as you can see I don't have one in writing, what I do have is experience. I have been and continue to be demonized, threatened, passed off as "must be violent since he's a man", simply because I am male and those who do it see themselves and those around them as victims. They also "use people" who need help, to promote these twisted idealism of hate.
Now  if I was to behave as they do, I would blame all women for what "they" did, I would have the belief, all women are false accusers, all women lie, all women hate men, see how ridiculous that is. Instead, I used my brain, and looked into what was going on before I spoke, and I found the difference.
Feminists and women are two different things.

Many women who do distance themselves from been called feminists have one thing in common, they all refer to "I don't want to be seen as a man hating bitch", 
susan sarandon
Susan Sarandon

"I think of myself as a humanist because I think it's less alienating to people who think of feminism as being a load of strident bitches and because you want everyone to have equal pay, equal rights, education and healthcare.
It's a bit of an old-fashioned word. It's used more in a way to minimize you. My daughter who is 28, doesn't even relate to the word "feminist" and she is definitely in control of her decisions and her body."

Chivalry is actually 'benevolent sexism', feminists conclude
by Lucy Jones.

There’s nothing worse than a po-faced man-basher 
whose mouth purses up when the door is held open for her.

“You’ve abandoned the sisterhood,” they whine, when a woman simply wants to be looked after and treated like a lady. Do they really believe men think we can’t open a door ourselves?
In a world where you’re likely to be asked out on a date on Facebook or proposed to via tweet, it would be pleasant for some “old school” traditions to remain.
Thankfully, there are still men out there who will take your coat, pull out the chair and pay for dinner. Hairy bra-burners may be happy to walk on the outside of the road but what about the rest of us?

And then there are the studies done by...women
Why Straight Men Don't Want To Get Married
By "Helen Smith"

Or women who recognize the word feminism is synonymous with man-hating.
Is It Time to Replace the Word “Feminism”?
By "Crissy Brown"

 I get a lot of emails from feminists, some local who always refer to this blog as anti woman, even had a local who tried to spit, "we know his views on women", which I answered, "you want a feminist political debate, glad to, I will put up what I say on my blog anytime of the day". 
I have never blamed women for what so called feminists did, since I have daughters, that would be pretty stupid, but if they want to say I dislike feminists, that is true.
The problem they have is they really believe they represent all women, they refuse to see the harm they are doing, and for that reason, many women are distancing themselves from what they see as a man hating club
The worse is, men are now having a really bad reaction to any woman who claims to be a feminist, and women are starting to realize it. So they are distancing themselves from that claim and replacing it with humanist or equalism. Let's hope this new trend is not taken over by radicals the way feminism was. But if it is, which I have no doubt they will try, the same thing is going to happen, men will have a bad reaction to it.
Men love women who act like women, and women love men who act like men. The past is gone, it served it's purpose for that time, we live in a new era, but when it comes to men and women, things don't change much.
After all, nature always rules in the end, try to change it and you already lost.

No comments: