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Saturday, March 24, 2012

Lanark County Interval House presents...Part with Your Art Swap & Sale..Do not waste your art...Do not support, here is why !

The local women's shelter in carleton place ontario is at it again, trying to increase their funding by making you believe they need the money. At 1.4 million a year, they have more than enough to provide the needed help for "existing" local women's issue. With that kind of financing, what do they do with the money? Let me explain the details...
The problem I have with them is, this specific shelter is badly managed and any woman who has a vendetta or is revenged minded, or a simple argument, only has to go to this shelter and it's staff is more than willing to help, no questions asked and without asking if it is true or not. Many families have been destroyed by this type of policy.
Fathers, once the wife or girlfriend is at this shelter can no longer see his kids, is treated like a criminal and demonized, and in the majority of these cases, the wife or girlfriend goes back home to the husband and the accusations made have a tendency to stay, eventually causing lingering problems in the family. If only the staff would be experienced instead of been man-haters, the right help could be offered, the results would be totally different and families could get the help needed instead of separations.
The other group this shelter goes after is teen girls, if the daughter is raised by the father, (namely me) even if the reason is only teen rebellion, it does not matter, they will go as far as to destroy this child's future and demonize the parent, to them they are a statistic for next years funding, consequences be damned.
And if the father dares to dispute this policy, then he can expect a coming nightmare from them, especially for it's director, erin lee todd. Consider this, this person is also the Co-Chair of Social Justice and Action/Anti-Racism Anti-Oppression.
This to me is the irony of all this, she is native, her staff, which 2 more are native, puts a native teen girl on welfare, destroying her future (anti-racism???), refuses to undue this injustice, and when the father tries to explain the situation and ask for her help, she "oppresses" him by sending her girlfriends from the local opp, to threatened him with a non-existent warrant in order to make him disappear, basically telling him, his daughter belongs to them, to do what they wish.
As for the social justice and action part, this teen girl, admitted the staff told her to say she was locked in the basement in order to by-pass the parents wishes (namely me) she not be put on welfare at this young age, and tried to brain wash her by saying to her "there is something wrong with a father loving his daughter so much??". Sick and disgusting accusation is it not?
This is their funding practices, it wastes needed money from those who do need the help, wastes needed resources, and when they are finished with the subject, throws them out into the world, even underage girls, and asks the government and you to provide them with more money to do it again next year.
I never said the shelter system should not exist, but it has to be reorganized to provide the real help society needs, get rid of the political and self importance, inexperience, of the people who run it, stop the corruption, enforce existing laws preventing false accusations, and 1.4million a year they get would be more than enough.
Those who deserve the help would get the right one, not be used for personal purposes, just the way Erin Pizzey meant it to be.
Imagine for one minute, your art donations to this shelter going to destroy families and teen girls future for a political ideal, self promotion, self importance and corrupt policies, who does this help. I will tell you who they do hurt...children.
This is a personal issue for me, and I have no intention of letting go until it's director resigns, to be the Co-Chair of Social Justice and Action/Anti-Racism Anti-Oppression, is nothing but a joke, she had such a good run at demonizing fathers that she believed she could do it without repercussions. Well I am no ones victim, my daughter is not a statistic and they better understand, families are "not" their playground.
To the ladies who read this blog:
Do not let them do this to your fathers, husbands, brothers, sons, tell them what you think and if businesses support these policies, boycott...
Parents have the ultimate responsibility for their children, offer support to husbands and wives instead of inciting division and the family will do better on their own. Outside interference is never the way, go to family members first, only when it is absolutely necessary should anyone go to a woman's shelter.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

was lookin online for this site and found yours, after reading, they lost my support, until they change their policies. Thank you.

Anonymous said...

Friend passed on this page, I have to admit I thought i was going to read anti women propaganda. Instead I read a well written subjet with good points.

Dianne said...

no support from me either.

Anonymous said...

All of these type of places play the "poor me" victim card in order to fluff up their own wages.

They already recieve overfunding in their mission to destroy families.

Only the people with their eye's closed cannot see them for what they are.


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Anonymous said...

I will not support anyone accusing my husband and son of things they will never do, keep up the good work, very informative.

Anonymous said...

Feminazis, why would anyone support them.

Anonymous said...

out of respect 4 u and ur daughter, I also will not support.

Anonymous said...

Why would anyone support those type of policies.

Anonymous said...

Good post.

Allison said...

no support here either

Anonymous said...

Native Canadian - you are a fucking idiot! Obviously you are trying to get out of being labeled as the abuser that you are! Ah male privilege! I know Erin and there is nothing about her that you've said that is true. She did indeed have a friend that was murdered. Just because YOUR searches didn't find it doesn't mean jack shit beyond the fact that YOU couldn't find it. Erin is a very caring woman, and not a man hater at all. She helps so many people - especially kids. She in NO WAY puts ideas into their heads about abuse! She doesn't "target" teens - but she does speak to them in a real way and honours their words and feelings. oh, and you fucking idiot, she is not Native! Get your facts straight. You may have contacted politicians, the media and whoever else, but tell me, how did that go for you? Do you have any proof that "they know what she stands for"? Let's see it. Because every sane person who knows Erin, including politicians and the media, respect her, value her and like her...a lot! Even when they disagree with priorities around funding etc.
YOU have created your own problems with your stupidity, ignorance and sense of entitlement. Take some responsibility for your own poor parenting, your bad choices, and your abuse. Its the only way things will get better for you. Your anger towards Erin is misdirected - I'd take a look WAY closer to home - like in the bathroom mirror!
OH, and lets see how YOU like the criticism - you too may decide to review comments prior to them being posted. I'll end as I began - you are a fucking idiot!

Anonymous said...

As a community supporter it is important to understand that from time to time abusers will target the agency in their misperception of who is responsible for their situation. Shelters have existed for more than 35 years because of the ongoing safety issues they face in their homes and communities. We would caution anyone to make a decision around support based on one person's need to find someone to blame. You can find the Lanark County Interval House site at www.lcih.com I am sure they will be most willing to address any concerns you have.