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Wednesday, November 2, 2011

The damages shelters can cause.

Shelters, the way they are set up today, have carte blanche to do whatever they want, without been answerable to anyone. The problem with that attitude is that without been answerable, they can dictate how these shelters are run, the end game is inexperience, and agenda driven policies are adopted. In turn, those who do need the help are looked upon not as people in need but a source, of either funding or statistic.
Some of these shelter counsellors have been victims of crimes themselves, question is, how does this make these people experienced counsellors, on the contrary, any victim of a crime such as this keeps a hatred in the back of their minds, and act upon it. How does this help the next victim if she is told men are genetically born sex abusers because of this hatred?
It has always been my opinion that men and women should be involved in the counselling of such a victim, to show that the crime was committed by an evil act, one evil person, and that the world around them is a good place and the majority of people are good people. This would prevent this person from feeling like a victim for the rest of her life and reintroduce self-confidence. The problem is, if this person is kept a victim for the rest of her life, then statistic can be manipulated.
The family, fathers, brothers, sons, daughters mothers, sisters, and friends, should be brought around the victim to re-install the faith in her surroundings. The idea to keep this person feeling as a victim seems to be the goal of these “counsellors” in order to add to their statistics, so it can be used as an increase in funding. The permanent victim syndrome.

Any personal and emotional pain caused by a crime should be handled by the family, those who have gone through the occurrence of a crime like those so called counsellors at shelters, keep the anger inside them, this is the way the system is set up at the moment, and it causes more damages than good. If a person needs to re-introduce into personal confidence, telling them they will be victims all their lives is not the way to do it, and shelters are great at creating victims.

It is like AA for instance, an alcoholic switches their dependence for the bottle, to an organisation, which tells them they will be alcoholics for the rest of their lives, which is not true. If you are told you will be this way forever, it gives you the reason to fall. After all, you are forever an alcoholic or a drug addict for that matter, even if you quit drinking. But if you believe in your personal strength and your will, you can reach the point where you are no longer an alcoholic or a victim of a crime. And your self-confidence returns and you are no longer dependent.

I am a strong believer in the original work of Erin Pizzey, to provide words of support and not making them feel like permanent victims but important equal member of society with the right to a peaceful and respected life and to do it on a personal level, without the politics.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

excelent point.

Anonymous said...

Feminists using lies is so typical & predictable.

Anonymous said...

the Femnazis in Ontario have to be stopped.

Anonymous said...

Love it, i ask myself the same question, how does it make them experienced workers. If I get mugged does it make me a mugging expert?

Anonymous said...

they hates men but looks like one I think they hate themselves being born girls.

Anonymous said...

feminist is like Christianity.. another reason to hate another group of people. im so tired of this shit, i really am

Anonymous said...

Excellent! Very well put together.

Anonymous said...

We have so many womens shelters, maybe we can convert them into prisons.They pretty much are prisons for the women who are caught up in those places.

Anonymous said...

shelters are nothing more than a modern day slave camp

Anonymous said...

many shelter workers who are from a background of abuse are put in a position of power and control at womens shelters,
and eventualy they become the abusers, they destroy families and invent story to back them up, that was my experience anyway

Anonymous said...

Shelters are controled by greedy, bitter women who are homely.

Anonymous said...

normal women are too busy living their lives without Feminist bitterness